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I've never seen that. When I've seen girls reply that they're focusing on career or they don't want anymore kids - I've never seen anyone give a judgemental reply. I guess it varies by families. When a girl comes into my family, we are all ( and I'm the leader in this ) telling her to continue her education and work. We offer babysitting support as well.
I have a few single cousins if any ladies are interested. We produce real men. And you are very welcome!
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^ if they're such real men, why haven't u snatched one up? :D
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i notice people always get annoyed with this question and i suppose i might too if i were asked this continuously..but when aunties see you they have to say SOMETHING to create casual conversation, so a lot of them just resort to this topic. don't take it too seriously, give them an honest answer (it's only been 3 months, what's the rush?) and that's it.
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I don't want to marry a cousin! We've had too much intermarrying in the previous generation. No one has married a cousin in my generation yet.
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^so why don't you be the one to break the ice!
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oh and this isnt’ the end of it. once u have a kid its..when are u having antoher one. when the kids get older…well i dont know, the average GS group of babies hasn’t grown up yet. 
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Why do you take aunties so seriously?
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ok thanks guys firstly, by saying aapki dua chaiye, is soo cheezy andddddd it makes it sound like we have been trying damn hard to get preg, but we are not succeeding, so thatl start the `sympathetic doe-doe eye looks at me...
to be honest, i am trying to concieve, and only its been 3 months for me, it feels like years....and it doesnt help when people ask me intimate questions about my sex life..i swear some of my aunts are just pervs.....and then ask me if im on the pill or not, and if we do it every day or noit..i mean wtf...your sick......seriously i want to vomit when my aunts ask, and then proceed to tell me HER SEX LIFE....jeeezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
and guys trust me they ask so that they can somehow make something terrible up and spread the gossip, all my cusins have conceived straight away and they love telling me now im married and 3 months in..and still not conceived.....it does stress me abit as I DO WANT TO CONCEIVE..but need a i want to work first reason so as to not make them think something wrong..
geddit?
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nadz, it really aint a competition. And tit tit for ur cousins for making it to be one..
Children are a blessing.. but they're also very.. VERY hard work.
Inshallah it'll happen... prob when u start worrying less about what other people are gonna say or are saying. Ur married, hence ur aunts think its cool to discuss sex with u... nothing pervy about it.. its just something they think is ok to discuss now.. dont freak out about it so much
Anyways... the less u worry about when ur cousins conceived, the better it'll be for u... and the whole "aap ki duayein chahiye" comment is just a comment to get people off ur back.. if u dont wanna say that.. tell them the truth.. simple
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Don't worry about who conceived and when. Just focus on yourself. 3 mo is nothing. Just keep trying that's all.
Ask them for special baby making positions. They shall never ask again! :)
Wrong Milla .
Things have progressed. They'll tell you the position and next morning ask you if you tried it :D
@OP.. Well some maybe just striking a conversation or trying to be funny. Like everyone said smile and change topic. Easier said than done, but sure does buy you peace of mind.
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so ok after all that diatribe nadz123, you still havent told us: when's the baby coming?
Wrong Milla .
Things have progressed. They'll tell you the position and next morning ask you if you tried it :D
@OP.. Well some maybe just striking a conversation or trying to be funny. Like everyone said smile and change topic. Easier said than done, but sure does buy you peace of mind.
I once heard of a MIL putting a tape recorder under the bed to find out if her son and his new wife had done it on their wedding night, seriously what is wrong with these ppl??