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I want advice. How does one improve his strained relations with dad???
My dad has been veyr harsh with me in da past. I’ve lived thru it, but I wanted 2 show it 2 him that dad, I love u, & I wan2 improve myself, I want u 2 improve too. U have mistakes, u alwayz criticized me, but u have mistakes which u havent seen. Ppl come up2 me, & point out ur mistakes, which I’m fully aware of, but how do I put them in words & generalize with u. How do I negotiate with u dad…when I needed u da most, u send me 2 a foreign land with no1 around me, Xcept ALLAH Almighty.
Dad, I love u, but u wont be able 2 see these words. I alwayz wanted 2 improve myself, but I found myself bombarded with harsh criticism from u. Dad, u alwayz used harsh words at age I couldnt even find myself a place 2 earn a dime.
ok...i can't offer nething constructive to say here...but i just wanted to say that this rele reminds me of the song "Perfect" by Simple Plan...no, i'm not a rock chick but i do like the song...here are some lyrics
Hey Dad look at me
Think back and talk to me
Did I grow up according
To plan?
Do you think I’m wasting
My time doing things I
Wanna do?
But it hurts when you
Disapprove all along
And now I try hard to make it
I just want to make you proud
I’m never gonna be good
Enough for you
I can’t pretend that
I’m alright
And you can’t change me
‘Cuz we lost it all
Nothing lasts forever
I’m sorry
I can’t be Perfect
Now it’s just too late
And we can’t go back
I’m sorry
I can’t be Perfect
I try not to think
About the pain I feel inside
Did you know you used to be
My hero?
All the days
You spent with me
Now seem so far away
And it feels like you don’t
Care anymore
And now I try hard to make it
I just want to make you proud
I’m never gonna be good
Enough for you
I can’t pretend that
I’m alright
And you can’t change me
shikes yaar :-/ its literally making me cry after reading that
hmm mal1k ok i normally dont give out flowers to guys lol but i think ur situation deserves for u to get one
firstly, u r not alone, a million and one children out there feel like that abt their parents…trust me on that one…so dont think ur relationship with ur dad is exceptionally bad or abnormal…
i think its difficult sometimes but try to look at the positives, remember all ur dad did do for u…perhaps thats just in his nature to be harsh…try to accept it…just try to block the negative things out of ur mind…u cant change him but u can change urself…be patient and learn to let go of the past…
and understand that deep down he loves u n wants the best for u, thats the reason why he is so harsh with u, if he dint care he wouldnt
u r an adult now n an independent individual…just have nice relaxing times with ur dad u dont need to go into deep topics that cause friction coz u r incharge of ur own life now…
spend time with him maybe in some light carefree activities with some light moods n chit chat and that will perhaps ease the pain of the past and u’ll feel better
