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lol well thank God we dont only hav those choices coz i would b jumping of a cliff right about now.
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some people have even less choices than that…i am sorry for them:( …but I love life too much:blush: to jump from a cliff or anywhere else, no matter how hard it is, I love life:)
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lol, their so many people who divorce after trying 10 or 15 years to change their partner…would become someone else to please your wife and ask her to become a stranger too?
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Effectively, that is the key different in logic between a western-style love marriage and an eastern-style arranged marriage.
In a western-styled love marriage, you are looking for someone with a personality that matches and suits your personality. You are raised with the belief that that to love someone they must be accepting of your personality and you must be accepting of theirs.
In an eastern-styled arranged marriage, it is acknowledged that it is possible that the bride and groom have personalities that may not suit each other. But the expectations, and the way people are raised, is that both parties must be willing to change who they are to become more acceptable to each other.
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Both #s 1 & 2 are weird. There needs to be a #3
3 - Stay single <<< Stay completely out of the mess :k:
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1-love someone i cant marry.....
now y the hell would i marry someone i cant love.......rather stay single and mingle...
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Offcourse # 1 ....
Love is Beyond that Marriage thingy...... I would Like to be Called DEAD than marrying somoene I cant love :)
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desis 
1
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1: This include loving superstars.
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2-marrying someone you can’t love
:k:
Love is over-rated, anyway. In married life, love is down in priority lader. The important thing is care and understanding, payar wayar tu baad main ho bhi jata hai, na bhi ho tu hamara kia jaata hia 
Ever hear that beautiful song by Vital signs, “Aitbaar”
Aitbaar bhi, aa hi jai ga
Chalo tu saahi
Raasta koi
Mil hi jai gaa
Aitbaar bhi aa hi jai ga
…
Payar wayaar bhi
ho hi jai ga :rotato:
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=117194
I hope you can understand the lyrics 
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best answer so far…
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no i can’t understand the lyrics…just part of it…cause you know I am not desi:D
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Desi nahi ho tu kia hoa, urdu tu samajh aati hai na 
ok no problemo missy
Aitbaar means trust, confidence. the guy is saying that
'trust me and give it a try !
you may think we are not perfect for each other , but by the time we know each other better, the confidence will develop and we may start loving each other’ ( taking love as somehting casual, not very important )
actually it is dumb translation 
Just go and listen, it is very easy 
Itni mushkil se dhoondha hai, ooper se it is unplugged version ..
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Noor…
Those questions don’t make sense…
How can you marry someone if the love is platonic…
How do you know whom you can love or not? Unless you know beforehand…
Still, I’d go with #2…People change, personalities change, POVs change and one’s own self changes…
Hence #2…
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Is there such thing as platonic love?? I think that it would be an oxymoron.
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before marriage, only platonic love is allowed, na??..
love is a feeling, you don’t know it, you feel it:blush: but maybe my post doesn’t make sense cause i am too blond to make sense:rotfl: 
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love is a feeling…you don’t need any physical contact to feel it:nono4:
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bahut shukria for translation coddy…zaroor main urdusamjh sakti hoon…lekin sab kuch nahin:rolleyes: …sac hai k main desi nahin hoon:) jhoot kabhi nahin bolti hoon:)
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Da 1st one why dont know.
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platonic by definition means no romance, so physical or no physical platonic love is still an oxymoron unless you’re talking about love between siblings, parents etc.