Life as a mom & wife!

Re: Life as a mom & wife!

your baby is still very young and personally, i wouldn’t leave him with a sitter at this point, but you can definitely do all of the things you’ve mentioned together as a family. and i feel like right now, your hubby needs to get used to the idea of going out with the baby. so take the baby grocery shopping or to the mall or the library or for a walk. even if it means you have to stop and feed the baby and change him along the way- its fine. it just means you slow down and you take your time.

and i know you said you’re now allowed to see friends unless hubby is home- see if you can change that. you, as a mom, NEED to go out and meet other moms and get some fresh air. its imperative for your sanity and mental well-being, especially in these early days before a routine is set. i was so frustrated and angry because i was home all the time with the kid initially and i would take it out on my husband who still kept his routine of going to work and meeting people and then he’d come home and be all, “we’re not going anywhere with the baby! omg.” OMG him, that’s what :stuck_out_tongue:

so see if you can find a mommy’s group to join or find a baby program at the library, and even if you only go out for 15 minutes a day, it will make such a big difference for you!

khawa, YES. terrorists and bullies. lol!