Re: Life after children
Well my daughter (accidently bless her!) appeared within 11 months of getting married and we got married within 6 weeks of meeting so we didnt hardly have anytime on our own. My family didnt live closeby at the time as we were living out in Essex cos of my hubs work so when she did arrive we didnt get much time on our own in the beginning which was a bit of a shock as we hadnt even been married for a year!
However when my daughter turned 6 months my bhabi did start looking after her for a few weekends so we could go away to Italy and stuff for my hubs birthday and for my birthday which was really nice.
Then we moved back to London and everything changed cos every1 is nearby. My bhabi takes my daughter at the weekends as i work weekend mornings at a health club. Plus my mum and brother live a few roads away so i now have babysitting wheneva i want which is really nice cos hubs and i get to spend quality time together. We neva trusted babysitters with our child. So when we were on our we just got on with it. But like i said im lucky now as i have every1 close by. :D