Letting your spouse know you love him?

Nikka_Kaka · March 27, 2007, 10:19pm

Salam everyone,

What have you done to show your spouse know that you love them and they mean the world to you??
Any thoughts ??

Skittlez · March 27, 2007, 11:13pm

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You don't need to prove your love, or do anything to show it... it's just understood.

massive · March 27, 2007, 11:18pm

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ill let you know once ive got married :)

Amber11 · March 28, 2007, 12:09am

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one smack in the head once in a while:D

chacha_Ghalib · March 28, 2007, 12:46am

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^ probably in ur dream... caz if u tried it in real life it wouldn't be "once in a while"... it would've been once, the first and the last time :D

Mabrook · March 28, 2007, 2:48am

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nikka kaka kunwaray logon ki koi advice mat laina :)
there can be lots of ways.just choti choti batain can show that.
if u want some ideas then do sumething for ur partner that she likes n will make her happy esp if its sumething u wouldn't do normally for anyone else.

PyariCgudia · March 28, 2007, 3:12am

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Talk to him. That's enough as it is.

Submission_To_Peace · March 28, 2007, 4:04am

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By respecting her, her family and her beliefs. Trying to understand her views even when you think she doesn't make any sense to you. Trying to think what good you can give her instead of what good you can expect from her. By trying to make her life comfortable in every possible way, to the best of your ability, no matter what choices she makes in life. By sending gifts frequently, things which she likes the most.

btw, I don't express my love too much in words, unless she insists me to say them regarding anything because "Action speaks louder than words". Also some feelings lose their value when put to words, as words are never enough to express them.

prototype · March 28, 2007, 4:26am

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^^ i guess my husband does exactly the same to me !! no words.. only actions.. but i am more of a wordy person..and want to hear more

prototype · March 28, 2007, 4:27am

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but.. no gifts from him in my case :(

Submission_To_Peace · March 28, 2007, 4:40am

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^ My fiance also wants to hear alot of words from me, but the reason I keep my words limited is because I don't want to comment or claim anything which is beyond my ability or belief, or I might not be able to prove it right.

For example comments like "Main tumharey liye chand tor launga" or "I can do anything for you "

Though I know such sentences are not used realistically, but still I try not to to use them, and concentrate on the practical and realistic aspects.

Mabrook · March 28, 2007, 4:40am

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i don't think feelings get lost when expressed rather they r better emphasized.most women loves appreciation n praise so not saying anything thinking they already knows makes them think they r not being appreciated n taken for granted.So jub aap ki wife khud insist keray to appreciate her means she misses it to that extent where she has to ask for it.

PS: chand tore laon ga is unrealistic but there can b lots of real things that can b said.

Submission_To_Peace · March 28, 2007, 4:51am

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Well, ofcourse I do say things to her, but at times I don't like to repeat myself. For example, I don't want to be asked this question more than thrice "Did you missed me all the time you were away ?" or " What you really liked in me when you accepted me?"

You see I don't get annoyed by such questions asked again and again when we have nothing else to discuss, but if there are more serious issues in life, I only try to answer such questions twice or thrice and than concentrate more on the realistic aspects of life.

Forexample. I wouldn't like to talk about such stuff when I know that she had been going through some tough time in terms of her health and I need to know if she is perfectly fine now, or what advice the doctor gave her, is she taking medicines regularly.....etc

SolarOceans · March 28, 2007, 5:44am

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I make out with him :)

Nikka_Kaka · March 28, 2007, 8:01am

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Thank You very much all ... I greatly appericiate your advices, Keep it up

Hennakazim · March 28, 2007, 8:12am

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Submission to peace you really know how to make your fiance happy
great tips of advice
its true if you respect your spouse, his,her family and take care
I think life couldnt be happier , its give an d take not just expect expect

Hennakazim · March 28, 2007, 8:18am

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but i think words also matter a lot , we girls like to talk and listen too

Submission_To_Peace · March 28, 2007, 8:24am

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^ True, but you see " Kam khana, kam bolna aur kam sona hikmat ki nishani hai":D

Thanks sister for the kind words of encouragement

p.s. Doesn't means that I always follow the above rule, but I do try

prototype · March 28, 2007, 8:59am

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prototype · March 28, 2007, 9:00am

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Submission_To_Peace:

^ My fiance also wants to hear alot of words from me, but the reason I keep my words limited is because I don’t want to comment or claim anything which is beyond my ability or belief, or I might not be able to prove it right.

For example comments like “Main tumharey liye chand tor launga” or "I can do anything for you "

Though I know such sentences are not used realistically, but still I try not to to use them, and concentrate on the practical and realistic aspects.

Well, ofcourse I do say things to her, but at times I don’t like to repeat myself. For example, I don’t want to be asked this question more than thrice “Did you missed me all the time you were away ?” or " What you really liked in me when you accepted me?"

You see I don’t get annoyed by such questions asked again and again when we have nothing else to discuss, but if there are more serious issues in life, I only try to answer such questions twice or thrice and than concentrate more on the realistic aspects of life.

Forexample. I wouldn’t like to talk about such stuff when I know that she had been going through some tough time in terms of her health and I need to know if she is perfectly fine now, or what advice the doctor gave her, is she taking medicines regularly…etc

:halo:

STP..if i wouldnt have been sure that my husband doesnt use the net and is not on GS, i would have been sure that it is him posting this ! so..my husby is not the ONLY PIECE of THIS type .. and he is not alone..neither is your fiance