When you love someone in a relationship and your no longer together, how hard is it for you to let go? Would you still call them or want to talk to them? Or would you want to call them during special events i.e. birthdays, etc.? And is it harder for guys to let go than girls because I have heard that many times when guys fall in love they give in with their emotions all the way.
Pyaari 
Kheriyat?
Ya…its not pertaining to me..its just a general questions. But thanks for asking 
For some girls is it very hard 2 let go a guy who she loved.
I know someone (a girl) she is no longer wid her bf now but
she still callin him sometime's. I thin k is it a good idea call ur
ex bf?
Pyaari, I would still call, UNLESS they really tell me to back off. See thers a friend, we don't talk anymore. I have moved on, but the love I have for my friends will never ever be less. I might move on and let go, but the love and care I have.. will never ever go away. And yes I would call on birthdays, eids, and such events :)
Sherni....but i am talking mostly about guy and girl relationships...more than just Friends.
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sorry for ULTA juwaab
koi baat nahi....aapkay juwaab jaise bhi hain...chalen gay....;)
toba..aik tou i dont udnerstand ppl who spend the rest of their lives crying for someone who left em...get another guy/girl and move on..life goes on
Its equally harder for guys to let go.
For me,
Easy to let go: YES
East to Forget: NO
lussi- its just a general question I have...because I am sure when one is in a relationship and later on they are not together it must be hard to forget past events, etc etc...
As about me, I don't think it'd be easy for me to let go. I won't.
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As about me, I don't think it'd be easy for me to let go. I won't.
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Allah na kare...but what if he left you...what would you do? Keep calling him, try to get back together? Or just forget about him?
you never forget, but you move on. For most people its impossible to walk away and never see the person again, so its ok in the early stages of the break-up. However at the same time, you need to de-escalate the contact, from say talking on the phone everyday to maybe 3 times a week and so on.If you know there is no chance of getting back together, dont try to convince yourself its going to happen. One day he/she is going to meet someone else, so why torture yourself and wait for that day. Its a sick feeling..
yah its really hard to forget, maybe even impossible... but once that person has told u that they dont wanto be with u anymore and they're not goona change their mind then theres no point in holding on any longer... ur not the one who's losing, they are if they cant see how much u can give them.... it means theres someone better out there for u, it might not seem like it but once u meet that person u'll realize that what happend was a good thing...
well, being a man it will be too much harder to leave whom i love. I know about men, they fall in love too much deeper to the point PNR (Point of No return) and it is the hardest of all for them to leave the girl whom they love. I heard a these words from somewhere:
"Don't cry in Love"
because for whom u r crying does not deserve your tears
and the person who deserves it will never let u cry!!