If you want sparks, you have to work for them. Sometimes its easy to ignite a fire, early in a relationship especially. Later on, it may become harder to create the spark that will re-ignite the fire but its well worth the effort. I know, almost 12 years and still sparking :)
mashallah...:).
What type of sparks are we talking about? Like when your husband looks at you and you feel butterflies in your tummy and things like that?????