Okie, here’s the thing… why wives always say this to their hubbies “We will share everything” . I mean, as per the life goes on, is it really necessary to tell each and everything that husband is thinking about .? Is it cuz wives feel insecured ? I am getting married in late october this year. Although we have been legally married (Nikkah) since last year summer but the rukhsati will take place this october.
I really wanna know the psyche behind this cuz my wife has said this so many times. and what does that term really mean, what they really wanna know from us ?
We really dun have any secret side business or wealth or jewels:bummer:
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dat means dat she iz urs.. all urs... ...
PS..mods: plz move dis thread to Life1...
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if you don't "share everything" please keep in mind that she will most likely not "share everything" as well.
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everything 
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wats wrong with ittttt
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share your car, share your plate, share your smiles, share your life, share your money, share your stress, share your sadness ..... your wife is one person you will appriciate the most and will always have there to support you and your decisions if you share your thoughts.
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That will be an ideal situation if wife does support and appreciate you all the way.
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I think this is something that happens more in "desi-style" marriages where the husband and wife dont know each other very well at first. Yes, its partially that the wife has feelings of insecurity, I'm sure of it. She has pledged her life to you and has left (or will leave) the home of her birth to spend the rest of her life with you so its only natural that she will want to immerse herself in finding out who you are, what you are like, what you like to do, what you dont like etc etc. I'm also sure that over time, this need for immersion will fade and both husband and wife will have "together things" and "apart things"....it will come quicker if the husband has patience and understanding of the wife's need to know him well.
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Desi style marriage? I mean the non-desi style marriages are not that open either.
I mean does the guy or girl disclose all of their previous partners and relationships?
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May be she wants to tell you something.
You can go ahead and ask her what exactly does she mean by sharing everything? Be open and straightforward, tactfully though.
Does she mean sharing every gossip that u had with ur friend in the afternoon, or what sis u just say on telephone to ur mom or does sharing mean to her, sharing an ambition, passion, life, pain ,happiness etc.
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I'm not up for sharing EVERYTHING!
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Well we share alot..there's nothing that I would deliberately keep secret from him and if he doesn't know something it's because I didn't think it was important enough to bring up into the conversation. I've told him everything abt my past, and i know everything about his past..theres alot of things that our parents don't neeed to know..
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You share whats neccesary...if tey ask a question then answer it...if not then keep it to whats neccesary...everthing is verything neccesary