Re: Let's look at the other side...
Why are you taking the other woman's side? :ASA:
I think my pakeeza category has different requirement than your pakeeza category.
The minute that she (and that goes for both genders) steps out of the "pakeeza" category and cheat - I am sorry they lose my vote and respect.
It's wrong. Justifying it doesn't make it right. As a humans and as men and women with a brains and common sense you are suppose to AVOID such encounters and feelings.
I feel in this day and age - it's so easy to cheat. Or to just divert your feelings. or Run away from issues and seek some sort of joy or thrill in another man or woman's arms/bed.