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how is she discussing it with others? she's not talking abt how she and her husband do it, what they do, wat they like etc. I think it's great if you can explain sex in a very serious manner, without getting bawdy and "wink wink, nudge nudge abt it."
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It explains a lot.
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OMG really? 
Yayyyy so that means I was “purE” when I got married..
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Hardly breaking news!!!
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Those that probably go for arranged marriages themselves, and have this regret of failing to find a partner themselves are always lecturing people to go arranged just to appease themselves!
live and let live, do what your heart tells u, u cant find one fine go for arranged marriage but stop trying to prove that its the only the proper way to go.
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And what the heck does "arranged" marriage have to do with the topic at hand????
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Sara, LJ's Post 2, closing comments.. I believe that was the whole reason of posting this article. Basically it implies that if you dont go for an arranged marriage, youre not pure.
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Keep yourself pure, for your pleasure and for the pleasure of your spouse...Go arranged...hehe
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^ Teh article is totally unrelated. The article is about a woman giving sex advice. Not a couple having an arranged/love marriage.
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^^
I think you guys are getting Arranged marriages mixed up with forced marriages.
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I know, thats why I clarified what I was replying to. and I wasnt the one who brought it up.
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maybe, to each his/her own thing, whatever makes em happy.
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guys don't rip on arranged marriages..only thru arranged marriages can guys like me end with some good lookin & decent girl ;)
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it would be interesting to know whether Ms. Kotb had an arranged marriage herself.
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No ones 'ripping' on arranged marriages here, its a good thing, for some guys, but im saying not to rip on 'love' marriages at the same time! do your own thing, and be happy with your partner and remain faithful! oh and good luck!
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shocking news eh?
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i think we all know the difference b/w the 2. besides this is totally unrelated to the topic on hand....i dont know what the point was of bringing up arranged marriages in the first place...
LAJJJO!!!
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Whats the real issue here anyway?
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In order to be in a fulfilling relationship, one has to make sure that the partner they are going to marry is a physically and spiritually pure person and to keep one's own self pure and far from impurity for one's self...Only then will the two people in marriage achieve the true pleasure from sex both physically and spiritually...
Keep yourself pure, for your pleasure and for the pleasure of your spouse...Go arranged...hehe
what a bunch of crap.
you are naieve my friend and have a lot to learn in life.
Sex is more of a mental activity than physical, if mentally both partners are on same page they can please each other . AKA CHEMISTRY !!!!!
nothing to do with how many partners u ' ve been with.
Don't believe everything they teach you out of books.
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Wrong of you to assume that everybody from west is sleeping around, equally wrong is your assumption that it does not happen in muslims.
Me not really religious, my wife religious and we have very good relationship. Do I need anything else to ponder about in your comment. I think not.
Love marriage has worked really well for me. Thank you.
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Damn right! 