ok its sad to play this mud slinging here attacking the gs members. Whoever steps in a thread in my opinion they are being honest so what if their opinion may not please you or match yours.
OP, its said k roz roz ke rone se aik bar rona behter hai, and trust me, its tried and tested. Emotions dont last long but hurts do last longer. better to get rid of a relation which is a pain in the a**
Lol. I am not criticising any member here. In fact, I myself give advices of break up as we really feel the pain of the posters. Somehow, I feel we have formed some kind of friendship here and we all feel some connection with each other and want to see everyone here happy and satisfied.
Its just that we all should be more tolerant and patient. I am sorry, if I am wrong and hurt anyone's feelings :(
Ive read in lots of threads the following being given 'let him go now u can, coz of the inlaws'.. or something like 'they are cheap people dont go through with it', or errrrrrrrr 'y did you choose him, leave him'!
Most recently ive read these kind of replies in mizsrani's thread abt Sil n stuff..
Dont u think this is a lil bit toooooooooooooooooo easy advice?
Doesnt one get attached to the finacee wether love or arranged marriage....People over here make it sound like you dont have any feelings in an arranged setting.. thats or so wrong wrong!!!
i think its kindof harsh and quite selfish and really does not sound like 'ur in her shoe advice'..
I agree with you. That's why i always say that the person in the situation is the best judge or the genuine/close people around him can help judge the situation. However people here can help only so much from what info they are given and i doubt anybody here would deliberately give any wrong advice.
ZK, I think no advice is good or bad. If one advise is right for one person, it might not seem right in the persons’ view. I love how this forum leads to sooo many of perspectives on one issue and how different people lead to different types thinking which one person is unable to achieve and thus make the poster think with an open mind by keeping all the options open.
At the end of the day, its the person’s choice what he/ she wants to do with his problem. But being on this forum enables him to understand various aspects of his problems from unbiased people. This is so good.
At the end of the day, its the person's choice what he/ she wants to do with his problem. But being on this forum enables him to understand various aspects of his problems from unbiased people. This is so good.
The person only posts that information which the person 'feels' is the issue.....which in reality...is only one sided 'emotional' account of the situation.....so the person doesn't get too much variation of views based on that info......
The person only posts that information which the person 'feels' is the issue.....which in reality...is only one sided 'emotional' account of the situation.....so the person doesn't get too much variation of views based on that info......
So you mean to say the views expressed here on GS are driven by the posters themselves?
But I have seen quite contradictory and opposing and different views on GS as compared to what the original poster thinks. People here try there best to provide a variety of views. Jitne dimagh utney views :p
No, but it is wrong really to put your fingers into your mouth and act like your man does in your avatar :halo: My mom happened to see this avatar of yours while she was sitting beside me and I was posting and she asked me whats this, she got worried :halo: lol.
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