Learnt the hard way …
Life is a tough cookie, but one thing that makes us stronger are our experiences ..
Please share the one most important lesson of your life , that you learnt the hard way …
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CB dude kia mushkil questions pooch rahi ho…
ok here goes:
“Treat you self as you would treat your nephews 
you yourself are some one’s child too:phati:”
It may not seem so at times. 
I learned it HARDEST way!!!
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Thats so true ! Glad you learnt it though 
I never used to forgive anyone … Would keep the grudge forever , my anger was known as a really fierce one… would even go to the extent of hurting that person in every possible way …
Until one day, i came in the line of fire of someone very important in my life .. that day i begged for forgiveness and so badly wanted to forget that had happened … but the person didnt forgive me for ages and ages …
and then one day , I was granted forgiveness , it changed my life , my heart and my mind immensely , I realized that we are all humans … mistakes happen … Just learn to forgive and let go … since that time I dont feel like putting anyone into that shyte phase where someone regrets greatly what they did and yet they dont get the forgiveness …
wat a lesson..it really takes time learning to forgive…i wish i cud learn that…
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I agree, CB holding grudge is second worst thing you could do to your self, After smoking. :D
You know I have been around some real bad-a$$ ppl. As a result I don't good ppl for granted. That mostly drive my behaviour of forgiveness. I do forgive. Good ppl are always worth keeping.
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I agree JK ... good people are always worth keeping ... there arnt many around us, therefore , the few that we do come across , we must endeavour to keep them in our lives :@:
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I just learnd a new lesson, here
"don't deal with retards unless you have a taser gun, handy"
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I learned that sometimes when I'm angry even if I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I am supposed to value my lovedones who REALLY care for me, they are the blessings of my life.
Plus one more thing that still I'm trying to learn, you can't explain each and everything to many people at a time so you better stay aside and speak only when you are asked to come up.
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i learnt just one thing
Wisaal sirf Khuda ki muhabbat main hai
baqee her muhabbat main firaaq ka imkaaan yaqeene hai
is ley apnee zindgee ka mehwar kabhi kissi makhlooq ki muhabbat ko nahi bannana chaeeye
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Lo ji, ba'qol PG ke .. aap sub apnay ammi, abbu, behen, bhai se mohabbat kerna chor dain ..
Hmmm, I learned that expect less from people, that way you dont get hurt a lot.
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very well said P_G I'm 100% agreed, very hard to learn such things.
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muhabbt zaroor karain lakin aysee nahi k jub yeh muhabbat bichray to app ko aisay na lagay k app kay qadmoon talay na zameen hay na sir per aasmaan
Tlk ma’arfat ki baatain hain app rehnay do : P
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I haaaave learned that... ... ... ... and ... ... ... , and ... ... ... .
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Never spank.
Wife and big book is a bad combination. etc
muhabbt zaroor karain lakin aysee nahi k jub yeh muhabbat bichray to app ko aisay na lagay k app kay qadmoon talay na zameen hay na sir per aasmaan
Tlk ma'arfat ki baatain hain app rehnay do : P
Mainay isee lye apna naam Arif se change ker ke TLK ker liyaa thaa .. mera ma'arfat se kiya kaam, aunty Soofi
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^ mera reply qoute ker k aunti soofi ko jawab day rahay hain ..phit kehtay hain k main sathyiaa hoa nahi hoon
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Ma'arifat kee baatian to u aap ker rahi theen iss liye aaj se aap ka naam aunty soofi hai,
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^ soofi to muzakar hai ..kia ho gaya hay app ko aunty soofi kaysay ho sakteen hai
kitnay number ayee thay urdu main matric main app k ?
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Soofi ka mu'annas kiya hota hai ..
O, sorry ..
kiya haal hain aunty Soofia?