Lessons learnt

I’m the youngest of six and i have always, always hated being the youngest. Especially given the extremely [sarcasm] loving and caring [/sarcasm] siblings i have grown up with. In the last 8-10 years though i have noticed somewhat of a silver lining on this cloud that is witnessing the problems that my elder sibs have run into in their lives and knowing what they did wrong so i can avoid those. This doesn’t mean i havent run into my share of issues but theres been some relief. Though i wish they had never had run into those problems to begin with, it has worked out to my advantage in some ways.

What are some of the lessons you’ve learnt from your elder sibs, and even younger in some cases, that have helped you out in life. These are lessons that weren’t explicitly taught to you but rather picked up by observation.

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most of the lessons i learend are from frnds ... and the best one is if someones pressuring u into marrying them right this instance ..b ailll

Leadership abilities.. !

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:hmmm:

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from frnds....Stdies ki tnsion mi lanay ka:)
from parents....Iss umar main stdies hi ki tnsion honi chahiye bs:)

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learned to put my trust in them...always.

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I am the eldest so I am mostly guinea pig for family experiments (lovely! [sarcasm] )
but I have learned lessons from my siblings nonetheless.

  1. Don't lose who you are as a person

  2. Family is not perfect but it's worth having anyway

  3. If you can't make yourself happy then nobody and nothing in this world ever will

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hmmm
chegum.
kahan tak sunao kahan tak suno gy

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hmmmm i think we live we learn...forever..

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The idea of this thread is more what you learned from observing your siblings' mistakes, rather than what they taught you.

:D Sorry Jimmy.

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Well gum,

My older brother was/is kind of wild. Real wild.
So when ever I was up to no good, it made him real happy :D

I had to take care of younger one who was emotionally dependent.

One of them was angry and much older, use to beat the crap out of me.
Really. 190lbs 6feet martial arts trained boy, hitting a 9-13 year old boy(me)
not so cool.

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I’m the eldest so I guess I cannot contribute to this thread :bummer:

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from my older bro i learned that no good can coem from any kinda ball. soccer, basket, ping pong etc

it always ends with a broken limb.

so i dodged balls all the time

my god im on a roll here
see.. even that.. right there.. roll!

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^:omg:

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I did . Never be a doctor or engineer . Its too much work . :chai: