Re: Lesson LEARNED!!! GIRLS PLEASE WAKE UP!
good for you now please do us all a favor and instead of opening a thread just write it on a blog it will satisfy your narcissistic tendencies because everybody will be able to read it if they want to
You can't tell me when to open up a thread. Mind your own business. Thanks...
Re: Lesson LEARNED!!! GIRLS PLEASE WAKE UP!
better now than never..good girl!
Re: Lesson LEARNED!!! GIRLS PLEASE WAKE UP!
better now than never..good girl!
Thanks girl... I went through misery after separating from him. They were hardest days of my life but I learned a lot during the process. I invested more time with family and came closer to them. ALLAH knows better than us. I can't thank HIM enough for opening my eyes! What if I spent my whole life thinking that he did actually love me? The brutal reality shows that he never did. It was his plan to look good in my eyes as well as his family's eyes.
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Well you learn lessons all your life. And people are just so unpredictable and un trustworthy... you never know. Like few months back, there was a songs competition held here on GS, if anybody remembers. many members participated and I particularly became fan of one member's song, loved it so much. Was rather mesmerized by it. And I expressed it openly too. And guess what, a few weeks back I found the same song on Youtube, by chance, and it was sung by some amateur singer Natasha. Imagine how I would have felt. So shocked. Because I dont believe in things like cheating and dishonesty. Just like you. So I learnt this lesson never to believe what people come up with on web. yay I am so lucky ma sha Allah.
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Mashallah.
:)
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Well, this is become so common now a days, few days of chit-chat on facebook and booh you are in love. Even i came across to case where a girl tried to commit suicide just because her some months old “facebook lover” cheated on her, here in karachi 
Don’t mind it but girls are either foolish or too innocent.
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I think Bollywood movies are engraved in our minds. We tend to give so much importance to our first love experience… If I knew what I know now, I must have made better choices in the past. I am glad that I am over him. I had such a difficult time. I might have attempted suicide as well since he was my everything but life taught me so much. He did an amazing job with making me fool and I called it love…lol..hahah.. This guy is a family member so I felt secure.
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Yes, because I really wanted to make it work... My lesson was hard one but I did learn.. It made me strong through the process, start getting closer to Allah, made me understand what type of people exist in the world, and etc.... People, he caught my heart so I couldn't get out but reality is exposed to me now. Love shove baqwas he did was such a lie. Thank God, I didn't get married to em.
I'm still trying to figure out what exactly did the guy do to fall so low and more so at the pace that he did here? Disregard if addressed already though.
The outcome of the story/process on the other hand, sounds pretty terrific given one actually follows the things they say they do. Major props on that, and for letting realization sneak in this time around. The part where the sweeping generalization was made about men though, was where sadness would attempt to massacre one's good-to-self mood and thus that, unfortunately, wasn't duly appreciated. All said and done, I wish you none but luck with your remaining goals in 2012. Shukriya.
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I can see a guy fooling a girl for a few months…maybe even a year or 1.5 years. But 7 YEARS?!! 
In this case the guy didn’t fool you. You fooled yourself!
Now lets see how many Life1 threads it takes for you to get over this guy. 
P.S. Don’t generalize about an entire gender based on your experience with 1 guy.
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^It may still take her a while to get over him, Paheli. Feelings don't turn off like a light switch, it takes time to move on. However, the GOOD thing that has resulted from the new info she has discovered about her ex.......is that he's fallen off the pedestal. She as lost a considerable amount of respect for him and this will help her to move on from him. The OTHER good thing I see is that a couple of weeks ago she dreaded the idea of him marrying another girl....she was scared of that girl...maybe even felt bitterness toward her. But now that is not the case.....she feels worried about the girl.........she's thinking about OTHER people besides herself and the guy. Instead of harboring bitterness toward him for marrying another girl........she's hoping and praying that he'll be a good husband and do right by her. So, while it will take time to completely move on from someone.....it seems like she's "grown" in some ways. And hopefully the new insight/strength will make it easier for her to move on.
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And why did I just read your post? … 
… It has given me very graphic imagery of dog like behaviour … I’m sure you meant something else … 
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maybe he couldnt stick to one girl bcs he never fell in love ..
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the numbers don't even add up.
for the past 7 yrs you were his gulfrand?
and in the past 3 yrs he rejected many rishtay coz they were not aishwarya rais?
vat u say pal?
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the numbers don't even add up.
for the past 7 yrs you were his gulfrand?
and in the past 3 yrs he rejected many rishtay coz they were not aishwarya rais?
vat u say pal?
Four years we were together and three years post breakup. My heart wasn't letting him go... Families rejected him and he rejected some. The Aishwariya Rais he wanted rejected him not other way around because the guy don't have any qualifications... He is uneducated and doesn't have a decent job ...
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so why is someone awesome like you stuck for 7 years on an uneducated guy?
and what do you do for a living?
Re: Lesson LEARNED!!! GIRLS PLEASE WAKE UP!
so why is someone awesome like you stuck for 7 years on an uneducated guy?
and what do you do for a living?
You dont need a reason to love someone... He is extremely handsome and he does "ACT" educated.. Anyway, I am over him now!... WHAT A JOURNEY FILLED with obstacles of getting over him...
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you dont need a reason to love someone? 0_o
and what do you do for a living, BSB?
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you dont need a reason to love someone? 0_o
and what do you do for a living, BSB?
I am a doctorate student. I cant tell you more about myself. I was just super sensitive back in days...
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I will believe you if you change your id to some thing more modest ..
like cho'ota patakha...
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I am a doctorate student. I cant tell you more about myself. I was just super sensitive back in days...
dude i dont believe you. you are that girl $ehar who posted some random ppls songs on gs claiming to be you singing it. :\