Talking to someone I heard that girls in girls’ colleges do it openly…Like if it’s a break or something, they would be literally making out on the benches…
Keep in mind, lesbianism for me is a lot different than it is being gay…
As far as I am concerned, I have no problems with lesbianism, because obviously, what’s the most that can happen…Hormonal girls pleasuring each other to defuse their urges is different than having sex, like men do…
Yes, I do find there is a difference between male and female homosexuality…Males have sex while women give each other pleasure…
If such an act defuses sexual tensions of a women without the illicit affairs which happen outside of marriage with the opposite sex, in turn keeps the sanctity of a woman’s body intact, then for some bizarre reason I find nothing wrong with that…(Many will be upset at this reason of mine)…
But I have also heard, that once a woman is truly into lesbianism, it’s very hard for her to come out of that mold, thereby debilitating her chances of a happy, normal married life…
Wallahoalam…
But, does it really go on in Pakistan as I have been told?
omg!!! my sex ed teacher WAS right!
we had this never ending debate on how men are more comfortable with women being lesbians than women being comfortable with men.
she also pointed out a book about women in iran who spend time (isolated from men) spending time pleasuring each other. me and another friend said its a buncha bull.
lajawab- why is having another woman to pleasure yourself ok but not fine if its a man?
What an assinine thread. As if homosexuality is ONLY about sex. Lajwab, since you have jumped to the defence of Islam so many times, I am now going to be just as a sstupid as you have been in this thread and think the very worst of every "Muslim". Idiots. Aik taraf se namaz, doosri taraf se behayai.
Reason being, the male sex organ is something which gives out life…Sperms…It is like ‘tainting’ something with color or making it yours…Like akin to either defiling someone (Rape as a punishment) or making someone yours (Deflowering)…
So, when a male on male action takes place, it’s as if a conquest has taken place…One has tainted or conquered the other…
No such thing happens with women…
Sarah: Take it someone’s opinion…It’s a very neutral one too…I didn’t mean to offend anyone…Either refute it, strengthen it or move on…Don’t make it personal…
I consider sex between the sexes as sex…I consider sex between two males as sex…I don’t consider sex between two women as sex…I consider it pleasuring…
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So I heard it's quite the rage in Pakistan...
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No, it's not.
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Talking to someone I heard that girls in girls' colleges do it openly...Like if it's a break or something, they would be literally making out on the benches...
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Hilarious!
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Keep in mind, lesbianism for me is a lot different than it is being gay...
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I agree! Do I have a problem with it or not? I won't say that here.
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But I have also heard, that once a woman is truly into lesbianism, it's very hard for her to come out of that mold, thereby debilitating her chances of a happy, normal married life...
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Unless she's bi.
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But, does it really go on in Pakistan as I have been told?
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No!
Lajwab! I can't believe you wrote that. :p I simply can't........ Tell me it's not you....
sarah, Why are you making ad hom attacks? If homosexuality is not all about sex, as you claim, tell us why you think so? What lajjo says in other threads defending what and whom should have no relevance to this thread.
So, again, please enlighten us. I am not being sarcastic--i really want to know. I once spent a summer at Bryn Mawr College--a women's college-- and had seen and heard things that did not make sense to me.
I think so because I have been around plenty of bisexuals and lesbians, And because I see something intrinsically wrong in reducing it to sex. It makes them animals, it justifies homophobia.
i think u have multiple personalities lajjo.
are u the same guy who said "humbly humbly bahu go to your hubby's house"?
and now u are like "girl-on-girl action...oh YEAH!"
There are three levels of sexuality aren't there: the actual act, desire, and the thoughts (?) Even if there is no bona fide homosexual sex, it does not preclude homosexuality.
Shweetz: Please don't judge me on my opinions...I had an opinion, I shared it...That's all...This opinion in no way lessens my previous opinions about other things...
