The most selfish thing a man can do. Why would you trust him then?
More selfish than a guy getting involved with a girl and leading her on for years and saying he will marry her but when push comes to shove and his mother is not on board .... so he leaves the girl instead??? Aka - does not stand up for his true love, the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with?
We have seen countless threads where the ONLY reason the mom is not on board is because she wanted to pick the "perfect bahu" herself... and this is not selfish?
I mean... if a mom is truly being unreasonable - and the guy (knowing his mother is like this) still gets involved in a relationship ... i think it is selfish if the guy does stick with his mother.
It's THEIR life afterall..... and sometimes (i know this is a hard concept for pakistani's to comprehend) .. the individuals themselves know what is best for them.... not their parents.