Re: Leaving a girl because of mom
As said above.........ALL angles need to be considered. WHY DOES IT HAVE TO BE ONE OR THE OTHER????? What logic is there in listening to one side blindly? Blind obedience is not a virtue. If man has been blessed with intelligence and the ability to reason, he will look at all angles, listen to all viewpoints, and consider the matter/evidence thoroughly before reaching a decision.
If a guy's sister is being abused by her mother-in-law in her marital home.....should the guy think that HIS SISTER is the guilty party? Should the guy automatically think that HIS SISTER is the problem and that her MOTHER-in-Law, who is an elevated mother, is the innocent victim??????? A sensible man considers all sides before pointing a finger.
Even the prophet PBUH apologized for his mistakes if the felt he had wronged anyone. And if he SAWS can make mistakes....then so can one's mother.