Re: Leader or follower?
You can help in by giving him playing roles and things to do himself and show to other.
That thing could be his liking.
Like whatever game he likes or good at ask him to demonstrate to you and teach you how to play and do things and you become total illiterate. ask things many time and behave you are not understanding quickly what to do.
Ask him to do some easy practical and show to his friend and explain to them but first you show him and encourage him if you will show that to you friends they will become happy.
Buy games from dollar shp that is magical game demonstrate him and play with him make him expert and ask him to demonstrate to his friends that way they will become happy and like you.
More I'll post later right now I'm not in mood. Insha Allah.