Laying skeletons to rest..

[Mem_Sahib]

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*Originally posted by CurruptAngel: *
Hmm to be honest with you I don't think you're ready for this marriage. You haven't gotten over that last relationship yet. I don't think you should just force yourself to move on like this. You don't have to.
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CA, If im not ready now.. ill never be ready... Iv come a long way, my feelings have changed a lot. I just get nostalgic occasionally.. :)

I need to force myself dear..

Lastknightess, very well put.

[CorruptAngel]

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*Originally posted by lastknightess: *
CA I guess you never really forget stuff that's happened in our life..you carry the wounds and scars with you forever..but it doesn't mean you aren't ready for the future.
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I agree with you LK but I was talking about 'getting over' the relationship..Forgetting is a different thing but if the relationship isn't over it aint over!

[CorruptAngel]

*Originally posted by Mem Saab: *

**… Iv come a long way, my feelings have changed a lot. ..

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That’s a very good thing..:k: All the best for your wedding! Wish you a very successful and fulfilling future!

[Mem_Sahib]

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*Originally posted by CurruptAngel: *

I agree with you LK but I was talking about 'getting over' the relationship..Forgetting is a different thing but if the relationship isn't over it aint over!
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Oh Its over!

but im not talking about any One in particular, generally..

[ghuLail]

Re: Laying skeletons to rest..

*Originally posted by Mem Saab: *
As we go through life, we meet many people, form many relationships, some friendships, some more than that.. we create dreams and have aspirations with these people.. we build our imaginatory future with them.. but things never work out how you plan or how you wish.. but there comes a time when you truly have to move on.. until you do.. i think we float along with all this baggage in tow..

Such a time is here.. for me.. Im getting married in about 4 weeks time.. Its time to lay things to rest… but as I ‘air’ my heart and mind ridding myself of the loved and lost.. I find despair seeping in, anger.. hurt.. all the feelings associated with the death of a relationship.. Im trying to move on with my life and I have moved on.. but there are strings that hold me back… I want to cut these strings.. I want to move forward with a clean slate if you will…

How do you mentally prepare yourself to lay all your skeletons to rest and move forward with a clean slate?

ai merai koa yeh koi hindi film ki telecast lag riya rai. koi larkpan ka ishk toa nahi peekchur mai? waisai there is no way u can ‘prepare’ yrself i think. time solves everyting i believe. in this case, u’ll prob wont rem anything after a month into the marriage, hopefully. unless of course woh aap ka ‘sacha piyar’ tha.