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Invites. Why do desis do this?

Have you ever known a desi family to send out invites on time ??

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Always late

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depends what kinda desis you deal with. most people i know do it the right way...send invites well in advance and ask them to RSVP before a certain date.

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I once received an invite 2 days before a wedding

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probably invited you as an after thought ? :(

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Yes. I know many families that send invites several weeks in advance. Yes, Desi.

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Yes we usually get invites well in advance with rsvp request. Once someone had a genuine reason for sending the invite late (they came late from paki) but the family told us and invited us way in advance over the phone. A friend invited me to her wedding 2 days before....I thought that was rude and simply didnt go. I guess pekple cancelld and she was oooking to fill spots

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For events that require formal invites (ie. weddings), I usually received the actual physical invitation about a month before. However, with family and close friends....they verbally share the date/location of the event MONTHS before (as soon as the venue is booked usually) just so we keep that date free.

If I were to received an invite a week or 2 before the event....I'd assume that others cancelled and the hosts just wanted to fill the seats. Not an event that I'd choose to attend.