Re: Larka & larki should not meet after engagement!
I’ve thot about this too for a while… went thru a phase where i think i wud be happy doing the “blind marriage” thing coz i was too afraid 
but I think it simply has to do with the fact that relationships are volatile…parents of daughters don’t want them to get attached to the guy until she’s married to him because then there’s less chance of them breaking apart than if they wer ejust engaged… basically they shudn’t meet/talk too much because of the emotional attachment that may or may not fade…
My mommy said i can meet him and talk to him and stuff (fone and IM defintiely, not sure about actually meeting alone).. she wants me to like him and be excited and know what i’m getting into 