Language barriers in relationships

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@NaMaan

A very common complain from the women who marry guys from Pakistan . On the other hand the guys who marry girls from Pakistan , doesn’t complain about it much . Mostly because guys try to learn both English and urdu/punjabi/etc . **Somehow women are most status conscious and think that it won’t be cool if they’ll know or speak mother-tongue . **

I know a lot of goray who marry Asians and are perfectly happy . Most of them learn Chinese/Japanese later on . Soooo all I want to say is that it depends lot on the amount of effort you want to put in . You can improve your English and bit and he can work on his Urdu .

EXACTLY, on the other hands gora’s take it as learning new culture and they do learn !