In my personal experience, language is huge. He doesnt have to speak English fluently or be accent-free. He has to be able to understand the language I feel most comfortable in or communicate frequently in. And vice versa.
Communication is KEY in every relationship. If your wires are crossing because of language, its even more frustrating because its not anyone's fault. Who can you go to? Who to take it out on? No matter how much I speak in Urdu, I switch over to English unknowingly. He has to be used to English enough to at least be able to understand me fully if not speak back to me. And vice versa.
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sorry to ask and i wud appreciate if u answer my Q. if do NOT wish to its ur right and i'll understand. thank you...so can i ask the Q?**