My mom has bought suits for all of my fiancés family, women, men, kids, everyone and now we’re stuck. We don’t know if we should get them anything else? My MIL is also getting gold earrings and my FIL is getting a branded watch.
My parents are paying for the walima outfits and his parents are paying for the barat outfits. My parents want to give my fiancé a watch, but do we put the box into his walima-outfit-basket, or do we give it to him on the barat?
Pehnaoni.... Gift dresses for groom family is called Pehnaoni....
Didn't know what else to call the thread. lol.
My mom has bought suits for all of my fiancés family, women, men, kids, everyone and now we're stuck. We don't know if we should get them anything else? *My MIL is also getting gold earrings and my FIL is getting a branded watch. *
My parents are paying for the walima outfits and his parents are paying for the barat outfits. My parents want to give my fiancé a watch, but do we put the box into his walima-outfit-basket, or do we give it to him on the barat?
In our family, bold text is not practiced.
Can you mention the name of branded watch?
Are you two exchanging rings? Cause me and my husband exchanged rings on the stage on our baarat.. My mom was on one side on the chair and his on the other. My mom also put on his watch then.
They had put all my bari (husband's side) joras in my closet of my room.. His were given to him during a mayoun/dolki they had hosted which my parents were invited to.
My mom has bought suits for all of my fiancés family, women, men, kids, everyone and now we're stuck. We don't know if we should get them anything else? My MIL is also getting gold earrings and my FIL is getting a branded watch.
My parents are paying for the walima outfits and his parents are paying for the barat outfits. My parents want to give my fiancé a watch, but do we put the box into his walima-outfit-basket, or do we give it to him on the barat?
Each family is different. My parents are gifting hubby and his dad TagHeur watches, gold karas for MIL, gold sets for my 3 SIL and gold earrings for FIL's ammi. Plus suits for each family member and extended family. As our nikkah has been done we have already exchanged rings. My parents will give all the gifts to his parents before the shaadi, with the exception of his watch which will gift hubby on stage when salaamis are being given.
Same we had already exchanged rings at the Nikah except for the wedding band. So the watch was from my parents and my mom put the watch on him when I got my band. All the other stuff we gave at the mayoun. We don't do anything except rasams on the Mehndi, no gift exchanges or anything. I like exchanging of gifts on the stage only because I think it makes for nice pictures for formality. All the fun stuff like sisters asking for money and stuffing of the faces with gross sweets are done at the Mehndi lol. We don't do juta chupai stuff on the Baraat either. However whenever it's a girl cousin getting married the guys try and get away with asking for money at the door but I strictly told my cousins not to do that at mine because it gets too much then because we also hold a chauti and do juta chupai at home between the family then and its always been funner that way because my cousins can get carried away and after a few minutes sab ko daat milne lag thi hai to leave the poor groom alone. So that would be 3 days of asking for money and it begins to look to much in public but it's just for fun when done more intimately I guess because its not taken so seriously. Ive been tonsime weddings where the jagra over the shoes never ends and i never really liked that because baath bhoth serious ho jati hain sometimes. Aw now I wish we had a family wedding coming up.
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