Lagai Bujhai

Is it just part of Desi culture or also form part of all cultures?

What I feel that Desi eat spicy (mirch masala) stuff, so they include mirch masala during their conversation. :cb:

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Nice topic.

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Whats your opinion on this?

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Its gotto to do with human nature ,not culture.

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:hmmm: But I think that Desi (Asian) communities are more into it.

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Jahan bhi ppl have faarigh time …lagaye bujhaye hoti hai.

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Agree and Desis got a lot of free time. There food recipes also shows that they got lot of time. Shab Daig, Kunna, Paye, Nihari, Haleem all foods need time :hehe:

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So you agree cooking all that is a waste of time :clap:

My bro laughed at me when i said tht…well i had said aur bhi kuch :hehe:

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I was just referring to this to your point that lagai bujhai is common in waile log :@:

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Start a new thread on cooking is a waste of time plzzz:@:

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Go ahead… :k:

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You start …larki start kareygi aisi thread tou :bummer:

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Ok first let me know which is most favourite occasion for women to do lagai bujhai?

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Kitty parties:hehe:
This is wht I heard:@:

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I heard its mayyat wala ghar :(

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Mere ghar aisa bilkul nahi hua tha even though most of my khandan was staying over ,so many ladies.

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My sister told me that when ever a woman returned back from mayyat wala ghar, the first question other women of her house ask ’ Kon ziada ro raha tha’ :bummer: She is of the view that Mayyat wala ghar is a catharsis point of other women, where while watching crying women (Dead’s relatives), they start crying for their own dukhras.

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Mayyat wale ghar se nikale log pehle 20 minute marhoom ke taarif me dete hai baki 40 minutes marhoom ki shikayat karte hain...

waise muqawwee bhai yeh sawal common hai ke kaun zyada ro raha tha

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:lahol: jo kam ro raha ho, wo agli lagai bujhai ka topic bun jata hai… Hi behn deede khushk the iss neech ke, wo to yehi chahti thi ke aaj mare kal doosra din ho… :hoonh:

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Its different here & 'cuz we had many arabs coming so it wasnt like the desi thing.