CEO1
February 4, 2012, 9:06pm
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Re: Ladizz…would you marry a…
i don’t think a persons job ddefines who they are as a person. i may have a certain lifestyle at the moment but life is not about the things you wear or the places you go or the things you eat. as a muslim we should understand this. Allah can take away your things in a second.
i am more concerned about what he is like as a person… i used to know this guy who just worked in his bro’s restaurant. he didnt even have a GCSE to his name. but he was the most amazing guy id ever met.
i think people these days are too concerned with their lifestyle and status. it doesnt matter that the guy is funny or extremely considerate. it matters more as to what job they have or what degree they have or which area they live in. i think its utter BS.
i for one have never understood this whole ‘i need an educated guy/girl’
i have a degree n my hubby to be could be a taxi driver. as long as he loves me and we get on well and he makes me laugh n keeps me happy im not bothered. i do not think of myself as better than a guy who has that job. in comparison to his personality i could be considered lower than him to Allah.
That might work for you however contrary to your beliefs I think as an educated person I wouldn’t be able to get on with someone who wasn’t on my level. Uneducated people wouldn’t probably get half the things I say. Never mind, marrying them.
If someone is to marry they should try to make sure that their potential is on the same terms or level. Otherwise it could cause problems.