Re: Ladies
its not just the marriage you have to think about, its more about what happens afterwords......such as living arrangements, will we be together, separate? some days here some days there? just through everyday interaction I think it would become tough.....i guess its that vision we have that when we are married we can share everything with one another and its special between you two, no one else can share that with you guys ....however when he has a second wife he can share his feelings and problems with her too..so its not as special or tight of a bond ........i don't know its different
unless I am put in that situation I don't know what I would do, but ya I would definitely try to avoid divorce as much as possible