Would you date a married guy because he said his marriage was on rocky terms or he was about to be divorced?? Say for example you worked with him.. and he used to always talk to you about his marriage problems, he used to kinda confide in you, he was ofcourse hawt, you wouldn’t mind banging him. 1 day he comes open and tells you he has strong feelings for you and would rather take this friendship further to another level… he “says” he is willing to leave his wife and will divorce her soon…
What about a father of older kids close enough to your own age??? I know some girls find older, mature guys hawt, but how far would you go with this guy and how long do you think it will last, do you think there is any chances for it to last?
BULLSH*T!!! Any guy who says he will leave you for his wife is lying his ass off and its best to stay away from scum like that.
Its one thign to be attracted to/find older men attractive. But its' another if you willingly date them, first of all its just trashy if ure dating a guy whose kids are the same age as you. Sharam karo! And second, I personally think that a guy whose not married by his 40s, 50s, 60s, i'd stay away from him..
Its one thign to be attracted to/find older men attractive. But its' another if you willingly date them, first of all its just trashy if ure dating a guy whose kids are the same age as you. Sharam karo! And second, I personally think that a guy whose not married by his 40s, 50s, 60s, i'd stay away from him..
:) I agree and have you noticed that its usually the naive 16,17 yr olds that fall for it?
Nah, slutty girls are on a different wavelength. Anything is gold for them. I’m talking about how naive some girls can be to fall for anything and actually believe that an older guy will leave his wife for her. Also being a homewrecker shows what sort of insecure/cheap mentality the girl has in the first place. What makes you think he won’t then leave you for someone else if hes already treating disrespecting his wife by going behind her back?
Don't you people get sick of posting such threads, it's like you expect answers to every such issue on life, how would you do this? how would you do that?after a while it becomes so tedeous and darn annoying.
Well I’m not racist or anything but this being a desi forum and not having many in the first place, I’d rather focus on the positive/negative side to desis instead and discusss these matters. We aren’t whites/blacks and neither do our lifestyles match with them so yea lol
.. First of all Love is blind.
But never a married guy girls
Not only haraam but results in?
Just older guyz dats a diff story
but never a married 1z dats a no
Older guyz is ok if hez handsome
love being blind and if U fall 4 him
It does not consider many factors
like - age / height / weight / looks
rich - poor - short - black - white etc.
I have seen very pretty girls with ugly men
and a handsome like me yes i have fallen for ugly 1z
you cannot put age limits when it comes 2 love n romance
But if its intended to find a sugar daddy or greed then its wrong
In my book ladies
In love and war all is fair … thats how i fell in love still in love.
Hope i have given a clue bt so many other factors can be involved
why girls fall for such men..
few are family-problems / finances / freedom /sex & love ofcourse
What about a father of older kids close enough to your own age??? I know some girls find older, mature guys hawt, but how far would you go with this guy and how long do you think it will last, do you think there is any chances for it to last?
Have you ever done any of the above? ^^^^
Discuss and share...
if he can leave his present wife to be with you....what guarantee is there that he wont one day leave you in the same way and go with someone else?
in fact, its quiet likely he will do the same to you.
Can you elaborate on such a strong notion of ‘love being blind’? Does it come and hit you on the head? Or, love being blind puts a white ribbon on the annoying habits/personality of the other so we ignore it? Or would you call it compromise and finding the nearly ‘ideal’ type we are compatible with for whom our love has grown?
There is something called initial attraction b4 the love phase settles in, whether it be finding someones looks or personality attractive but age/height/weight may not bear a major factor when it comes to love but they sure do when you first set your eyes on such a person and consider taking it a level ahead from friendship/first meeting?
And yes there are so many other factors as to why such naive young girls fall for older married guys - main one being insecurity and no confidence in oneself.
First of all Love is blind.
