Ladies, what would you do if your husband was extremely boring?

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Re: Ladies, what would you do if your husband was extremely boring?

@_Passionate

^ But the OP says that the boring husband does not change his attitude when it comes to his kids either. So really, the husband is like that no matter who he is dealing with. Pretty much the boring husband is not interested in the family. So it doesn’t have anything to do with the wife being uninteresting or whether is well-groomed or not.

nope, the OP used the term ‘if’ as in ‘if’ there are kids.

so the presence of kids in this hypothetical scenario is a possible condition, with has two different situations, one where there are kids, one where there are no kids, and the rest is still the same.

so my original questions still stand..

now if i were to address the situation where kids are present, are the kids too little, are they bratty, are they just royal pain in the asses unleashed on him as soon as he walks in after a grueling day of work..and thus get little interaction..you never know

I mean for all we know everyone is perfect and this dude has clinical depression which needs to be treated, but that is not the only possibility.

PS: it can be one or more things going on, so the possibility that the woman has to do some self reflection is real, regardless of whatever may be the root cause of his behavior. It can not be just excluded as a possible factor.