So ladies
1-Did you do any thing in a relation(with guy) which you consider a mistake.
2-Mistake–You would not want/let your kids, specially you daughter to make.
Feel free to answer in yes or no.
If you want to volunteer details thats good too. 
(It would be kept secret)
ADDED::
I did not want to ask about mistake of intimate nature.
It could be any thing. Letting right guy go. Choosing dude for wrong reasons.
Taking some one for granted any thing.
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haha, no one is gonna admit to this.
yes Monk! I am willing to admit 
I LISTENED to the guy! and today I am $100,000 DOLLARS poorer!
I would not want my daughter to repeat my LISTENING mistake!
The only question is - who is the guy ?
I ain’t telling
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basically, dont do anything ur future spouse would disapprove of or would get hurt by.
I did something stupid.. and im still living with the consequences.
To some, the mistake could be classified as nothing.. but if it matters that much to ur spouse, then place yourself in their shoes and see how you would deal with it. If you know you couldnt deal with it.... it means it was a bad move..
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One of my reasons for avoiding opportunities to make such mistakes has precisely been this:
If I do them, then how am I going to expect my children to not do them.. (regardless of whether it is a daughter or son)
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Thanks for your replies ladies. I will respond tomorrow.
Dudes hold back. If you let ladies talk first I promise you will see a strange pattern.
I did not want to ask about mistake of intimate nature.
It could be any thing. Letting right guy go. Choosing dude for wrong reasons.
Taking some one for granted any thing.
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sadzz you are the kind who should be forgiven and should be given second chance.
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I think everyone deserves a second change ... sadzz do not take it to your heart .... obviously i don't kno ur circumstances so i can't even begin to understand how u feel ... but be thankful to god that things cld have been alot worst
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thanks guys :)
i just hope it never happens again... Inshallah.
princessjojo... things dont have to be of an intimate nature to hurt someone or be a mistake... they could just be foolish things that could hurt ur significant other...
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And what are you planning to do with this information. Make AchaaR?
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That I will tell later.
plz share.
is it a yes or a no?
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Pixie man ... lol wat is anyone gonna do with any info on this forum ... its just to learn from how ppl deal with their issues and wat kinda issues ppl have
thanks guys :)
i just hope it never happens again... Inshallah.
princessjojo... things dont have to be of an intimate nature to hurt someone or be a mistake... they could just be foolish things that could hurt ur significant other...
Sadzzz, I hope you didn't misinterpret my post as a response to yours. That wasn't the intention at all; was just replying to Monk.
I understand your point...earlier I was thinking in the direction of intimacy and other activities that may be prohibited by religion. :)
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First of all you type in red. Then you type three word sentences . And to top it off, you type three letter sentences per line . Pft. Oh did that answer your question , wait what was the question :o
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YES!!....listened to this guy who i thought id spend the rest of my life with...it ended as soon as he got wat he wanted and then i still couldnt get over him!!...left the guy that actually did like me for someone who didnt:-(
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^ I see a pattern here!!!
I LISTENED to a guy and that was my mistake.
You LISTENED to a guy and that was your mistake!
I think we should never let a guy TALK! 
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Never have Regrets because at one point it was exactly what you wanted....lol I'm sure u've heard this quote before.
Yes I do regret some things, and wanna know something, parents are actually right. The stuff they say, at the time it may seem like they don't know what they're talking about, but they do. With life experiences I've come to accept this. And When they say unhoon ne duniya dekhi huwee hai, they're not kidding, they really have!!!
In the case of daughters....I honestly fear guys approaching her, if people could just raise their sons properly and not them loose 24/7, then parents wouldn't need to worry about their daughters so much. :-P
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1-There were actually too many mistakes but the one genrally i can mention is that at a point of time i was so messed up in the dating/relationship business (around when i was 14ish) i totally lost myself.There were two guys involved (no i wasnt ever 2 timing) the first one was my ex the guy who loved me & my 'that time current boyfrnd' whom i loved a lot..It ultimately happened so that I tortured them both real Bad and in the process got tortured myself.
p.s( I have been happily back wid my ex-ex the one who loved me since almost 10yrs now and found my true love in him--i made peace wid the situation thinking sometimes u have to go through the worst to appreciate the best)
2-Mistake--Id like my daughter to not let her heart/feelings take over her mind cuz at an age when u are in ur teens n ur feelings start developing one dosnt relaise how many people get hurt by ur one decision..id like to be dere for her every step of the way with the kind of help i never got. I feel horrible for hurting my love,my family & the guy 'i thought i loved' who since our breakup has been a wonderful frnd!
Life Worked Out Just Fine :) Alhumdulilah !
Your right, lets do the talking ourselves now;-)
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yes i have done a mistake too.....i made a wrong choice