Then they aren’t worth it. I am a pretty positive and happy person. But I have my off days, days when I am “too much trouble,” just like everyone else in the world. Those days, I do need someone to take care of me. And my husband does the job admirably.
I do the same for him when he’s having a tough time with something.
So it’s worth waiting for someone who will stick with you and support you in bad times and good.