This girl use to work in a different department. I admit she got my attention beacuse she mashallah had good body. Then after interaction with her I noticed she was pretty and bit stubborn too. Just the right mix.
I liked her more because she was very non slutty type.
Cutting long story short we both started noticing each other’s attention. And after little short smiles and talks and stuff finally today we were able to talk for over an hr.
Boss asked me to come to lunch wit every one, I said no. I did not know she skipped too. When I went to their area guess what I saw??? she by her self. So So we talked and talked and talked. God knows what.
Feeling is good ladies and its totally mutual.
Since then I am not able to concentrate. Went to chapter. read 6 pages in 2 hrs
I don’t know how this is going to develop but today I am all
Stay tuned!! I will need your advise.
She spoke about her wish to get married and have babies
Asked about how last name goes in our culture. etc etc.
I think I should be little bold and make moves? Only thing is i want to keep it quiet because its work place. and I take more time moving forward with the ppl I really like.
couple of things which make me think you've just made another fairy tale up (a la your request for advice on rooming with 3 scantily clad nubile girls thread).
why would you mention her body to all and sundry?
what girl talks babies with guys? maybe with other girls.
JK, why do you want ladies to gather around?
Waisey, if you really respect that lady, you shouldn't be talking about her "body" like that. I don't think she will like it.
Look women love to be complimented. Just make it subtle. Ask her if she works out a lot, then compliment her on her determination and will power and follow that up with the comment that she has a great body due to her determination and will power. After which you compliment something else.
100% garaunteed she is will be beeming from ear to ear for the next day or two. :D
Niki baji - i think JK was just being honest about what attracted him to her at first .... which was her body. I don't think he is being disrespectful towards her. I know a lot of girls are going to hate and be like omg ... i can't believe that her body was what got his attention... and not her personality, her face etc. But her body is also a physical feature that guys naturally check out. Girl's do this too- we check out a guy's body (more specifically his built). And usually it is physical features that first catch our attention.
JK - when the time is right - you tell her that you think is beautiful. Plain and simple and to the point. That encompasses everything. :) Later on as the relationship gets more serious and you guys are more comfortable with each other... sure u can tell her what got your attention initially. If you want to... u'll be able to access the situation yourself quite well by then.... a lot of girls will be flattered by this..coming from the guy they are in a relationship with. Others might get offended.
@Janwar somehow the expression in your avatar and your comment seem to be in perfect unison
I don’t think there is anything wrong with liking a girl’s physique. Some guys like smart girls, some like chubby ones and so on. Whats wrong with that ? Its not like he has put a picture of her on the web along with her biodata and is then commenting on her physique.
Personally, I believe the real beauty is in the hands and feet
Good for you JK!!! Just keep doing what you are doing… seems like she likes it 