i too am blessed with a very helpful husband… his theory on this matter is
you are my building, if i maintain you, u will stand solid for a very long time.. if i let you go and not bother with you, it wont be long before u start to topple over..
building meaning his house and kids… if the woman of the household is healthy..she can take better care of the home and ppl living there than say a woman who has the whole load to take care of alone.. lets admit it.. child bearing delivery can play quite a toll on a woman’s health.. give her 4 kids in a row and she will be ready to roll over and pass out… how many desi khawateen do we knwo who complain of weak knees, pain in the back and well.. literally every boen in their body and they havent even crossed the 40 yr mark yet.
men need to help out.. period.