Re: Ladies and gentlemen,
perhaps in some extreme cases you may be right… but in general i would disagree with this viewpoint
if you keep in touch regularly …and if u wud be there for them if they really needed you…
yes that is keeping ties just the same as married women do
as i said above, i disagree that an independent house leads to total or half cut off … would u say the same for married women that they are in a house independent of their parents therefore they are not keeping ties or eventually would totally/half way get cut off from their parents? no you wouldnt not for the general population maybe certain extreme cases
i think to equate wanting an independent house with cutting off ties is both extreme and highly cynical
while, i maintain that the in laws are not the enemies of the bahus, i would also maintain that bahus are not enemies of their in laws
its a very misunderstood relationship with some interesting dynamics but your views on the bahus who want independent homes seem to me to be just as cynical as the views of bahus who think their MILs/SILs/ILs are out to get them
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