KuRmai?

What does that mean?

heard it in the song ‘Maye na Maye’ from the movie ‘Hum Aap ke hain kaun’?

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its means engagement (mangni).

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how do you spell the word in Urdu?

if it's kuRhmuii the:

kuRh = ill/bad/short
muii = face/temper

kuRhmuii = ill tempered

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kis zabaan meN? maiN ne to aisaa lafz na Hindi meN sunaa/paRhaa kabhii aur na hii Urdu meN...Pun jaabii kaa lafz to nahiiN?

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mere khayal se punjabi ka lafz hai....sikh logon main istamaal hota hai.

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oh ok...i haven't heard the song so i dunno if it makes sense.

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these are the lyrics where it comes...see if it makes sense :)

Mannat mangi thi tune, ek roz main jaoon bihayee
Us jogi ke sang meri tu karde ab kurmayee

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Its a Punjabi word that means engagement. Its a Sikh/Hindu Punjabi ceremony.

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yes, mangnii does make sense...this word must be a Punjabi word, i suppose! :) thanx for your input Blessed! :)

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But Barjatiya family didn’t portray a Punjabi family in ‘Hum aap ke hain kaun’. :hmmm:

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songs meN to alfaaz shaa’ir jo chaahe iste’maal kar le…fil ‘Loafer’ ke ek gaane meN na sirf Punjabii ke alfaaz musta’mil huye the bal k pooraa kaa pooraa misr’a hii Punjabii meN thaa lol…vo gaanaa yaad chooRiyoN ke silsile se thaa:

usage of Punjabi words in Hindi songs is quite common! :slight_smile:

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Thats a good point KKF. But I think Sagai is the word for Engagement in Punjabi and even they have used this word in portrayal of Punjabi families. Like in ‘Pyar to hana hi tha’, Ajay Devgan’s family was Punjabi and they had this song ‘aaj hai sagai, sun laRki ke bhai’.

Is there any difference between ‘KuRmai’ and ‘Sagai’?

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maiN ne to "kurmaayee" lafz kabhii sunaa hii nahiiN thaa is liye maiN nahiiN bataa saktaa...India men aam taur par "mangnii", "sagaaii" yaa phir "lagan" kahte haiN...mangnii aur sagaaii kaa lafz Muslims bhii bolte haiN jab k lagan kaa lafz non Muslims. maiN ne lagan karna kabhii Muslim ko kahte haiN sunaa.

Urdu ke alfaaz jo older Muslim generation meN aam haiN vo haiN "nisbat" aur "aqd" hai.

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I thought khurmai was some kind of embroidery.

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True, but the lyricist probably did not realize that you will catch on to his use of the word “kurmai” :smiley:

Its just lyrical liberty…

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Its not khurmai, its kuRmai.... KuRum = Kutunb in typical Sindhi is family.. so KuRmai = KuRum +aai = entering the family :)

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I think it's called padree, where they put dupata on girls head as a baat paki.

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yes padhri = announcement is the word for the rasm of Rishta tai hona in Sindhis. KuRmai is not Sindhi word, I was just digging Sanskrit roots of KuRmai :hehe:

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Are you a chalti phirti urdu dictionary :D

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yes I know,but I never heard kurmai, so when I read other replies I understood what it was :smiley: