Kum bachchay khushal gharana" (fewer kids, more prosperity)

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1- I clearly wrote “not in this thread but in general”.
2- We MUST refrain from all Haram. If prophet told us its haram, then, yes, we must refrain from it, but, if the prophet didn’t tell us its haram, then we should try to refrain from it not must refrain from it.

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Hopefully we all want our prophet sallal laho alehe wassallam to be proud of us in greater number inshaAllah, may we have pious offspring Ameen

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Aameen

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I disagree. Parents need to give their time and attention to make sure the kid is learning all essential life skills, school workload, and religious knowledge. With 10-11 kids, how much time can you give to each kid everyday? Very few people are born geniuses. Most of us have to study/work hard to achieve something in life.

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Are number kids directly proportion to :arzi: ?
@Tahurra @madz124 @LP @lethal_kamikaze @muqawwee123

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what does this behooda smily mean here?

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:emmy: love…
Ager behooda that to smilye hi nahi ana chaiye tha… :what:

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I’m not sure but i think the word is used “disliked” and not ‘haram’. Also the another word which is describe such action is called ‘Azl’ (as per my little knowledge). If Prophet PBUH disliked then we must try not to do that what He PBUH disliked. Anyhow the bottom line is that we also should have a strong faith on Almighty Allah that HE is the only provider & maintainer of either one child or many.

:slight_smile:

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No

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khul ke bolna tha na.. waise its not about love.

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Narrated Jabir: We used to practice coitus interrupt us while the Quran was being revealed. Jabir added: We used to practice coitus interrupt us during the lifetime of Allah’s Apostle while the Quran was being Revealed. Bukhari Book #62](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=62) , Hadith #136](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=136)

Ab, if you don’t trust the Hadith then I can’t help with that.

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Well I trust the hadith but i’m having difficulties in understanding this hadith. Could you please explain this in simple english, I mean in simple wording. :hat:

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“Marry affectionate and fertile women, as I will be proud of your great number, among the Prophets on the Day of Judgment.”[Abu Daawood and An-Nasaa’i]

you may find answer in it…

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:k: I got it now.