One of the biggest mistakes people make in life is to not know their number. If you are a solid 3, holding out for a 9 then life will be a huge disappointment. Sometimes people get lucky in arranged marriages and fail to recognize, how lucky they are and lose the best thing that happened to him. We had a Ismaili friend, girl was amazing, cooked good food, kept a good house, made 200 k, the guy was short, fat, dark, and didn’t have a job and would hit Shamsa.
When the girls grew older, they probably convinced Shamsa to get rid of the loser.
Also when I was talking to wife’s nieces who had come from Dubai and they talked about their unrealistic expectations, I could just shake my head.
I think I was an amazingly good husband to my first wife, My earnings were in top 1 percent, worked out. She complained about her health and doctors got her addicted to prescriptions and I had to take car of cooking and kids which I did happily and all she did was complain, no appreciation no love, no goodbyes no waiting for me at the door.
Now she says that I am the only man she ever loved, lol! Why did you treat my like garbage then?
Did it take a very beautiful young woman to claim her love for me for her to realize my value
BTW Shamsa had found a most loving husband but he died
If you put a lot of effort into something then you do have the right to expect acknowledgement for it. Watching your diet, having the discipline to excercise maintenance of emotional well being is important. An angry unhappy lazy undisciplined person does not have the right to throw shades on a person who worked hard and was disciplined
If my boys get acknowledged because day in and day out they put an effort into eating healthy, make vegetable smoothies, never eat junk food, never drink Soda, go to gym, go to work, go to school than Ofcourse they have a higher score than a lazy bag of jello
Focusing on single boys in Pakistan now are we? Either you’re a hideous gaylord hiding in your pink little closet, or you’re just another bi-sexual hypocrite
Not sure if aware but Russia and Germany have more women than men. If you were ever to go to a russian coffee shop or a restaurant you’d literally be asked out by 6’ tall russian women, all by themselves. You wouldn’t have to bat an eyelash actually, rather they’d scoop you off with their legendary advances thinking you’re the best icecream they could find in their country on that particular day. Not only because they’re short on men but also because you’re brown
Somehow poorly educated men like you are the reason that the world has stopped accepting workers from there. There are more women because women live longer so it is basically the older women that create the disparity not the marriageable age . We have many Ukrainian refugees here and it is very well known that they are very racist towards SA people. Lol!! foolish fantasies, there is not a place on earth where you would be desirable. An average male here would be a thousand times better looking than you and they have to swipe a thousand times to get a coffee date with a girl.
At birth, there are more males born compared to females. Most women would die alone than marry a faithful loser.