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I think he was being friendly. Men aren't just so direct with women they're planning to woo.
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I think he was being friendly. Men aren't just so direct with women they're planning to woo.
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I wouldn't call him a flirt but he's definitely a charmer as in a lady's man. He's very aware of how women are and knows how to talk and do things to impress them. I don't understand men in the least, not at all, not even a bit so for me to take this kiss on the forehead to be something bigger than a man seeing me as a sister or a really good friend but not someone that is a life partner or marriageable, would be embarrassing. I just don't want it to be laughed off as nothing. I've had my heart broken before so i'm going to be cautious, that's why i'm asking you all.
Of course i'm going to think on my own about what I should do but it helps to hear what you think. Thanks for the feedback so far.
kissing and I love you means a lot more than being just a friend now whether he really sees a future with you or just wants to get into panties can't really be judged from this.
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How do you feel about him, GG? If his actions made you uneasy, then let him know so that he's aware of the boundaries in the future.
However...if you're trying to decipher whether or not he has a romantic interest in you....I think it's better for your sanity to assume that since he hasn't outright said that he has romantic feelings for you and wants more than a friendship....that he is not interested in more than that. If a guy (even the suave charmers among them) really truly wants you, he'll make it known to you and his words and actions will (or should) align. Until that happens...best to guard your heart by not expecting/hoping for anything.
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I mean i guess he loves me as a friend right? Asking him directly might be embarrassing for both of us.
Embarrassing? He didnt feel awkward when kissing you and saying 'i love you' but you will feel awkward asking him for clarifications lol.
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I know what you wrote :P
"^Hmmm...What if she asks for a clarification and he assumes that she secretly hopes that his actions signified a romantic interest?"
But what if she doesnt ask him to clarify things AND he is into her BUT she avoids asking him because she doesnt want to get hurt AND he views it as a rejection AND that would be the end of a love story right here.
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Not sure how frank you're with him. But as a guy i can tell you this much, i would and never had done such deed. I have couple of female friends..and one of them been friends for more than 9 years. Agar koi problem ya osko kuch kehna hota tha..never got into close physical proximity. And as i guy, i would never say i love you..if i didn't mean it.
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guys don't kiss and say i love you in a platonic relationships, unless just in rare cases where you are over stressed or depressed.
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^I agree with guddi...perhaps..you were stressed and he felt for ya or something. I don't know. I hate assuming stuff. Why don't ya ask this chap..if you guys are good friends?..nothing awkward about it.
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I did that only once in my life ...
... and then I had to marry that girl.
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What did bhabhi do after that memorable occasion of your kiss on her forehead?
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In some cultures the elder kisses his daughter on the forehead. More of a protective gesture.
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That’s what I was thinking but guys here think it’s not fatherly at all. ![]()
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I did that only once in my life ...
... and then I had to marry that girl.
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What did bhabhi do after that memorable occasion of your kiss on her forehead?
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She started a similar thread on GS.
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It could be a comforting kiss, like maybe you were stressed out or depressed about something and he just wanted you to know that he is there for you as a friend.
But if he closed his eyes before kissing your forehead, and sniffed your hair after the kiss with audible breath ... then you have a problem.
totally agree....
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yeah …its a fatherly gesture…
and when accompanied by “I love you”… it means I do care about you.. but there are limits to this relation..
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Kissing on forehead? so awkward ... I would have gone for the lips. Forehead is like for your sisters/daughters. But then again I would never tell a friend that I love her and kiss her on the forehead? If he really loved you, he would have come forward straight open and honest. IMO, he is just playing you .. no true intention i think. Maybe i could be wrong. But my guy radar is off the charts on this one
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Kissing on forehead? so awkward ... I would have gone for the lips. Forehead is like for your sisters/daughters. But then again I would never tell a friend that I love her and kiss her on the forehead? If he really loved you, he would have come forward straight open and honest. IMO, he is just playing you .. no true intention i think. Maybe i could be wrong. But my guy radar is off the charts on this one
no...dont agree..pisiform.. a guy never plays with forehead kisses and I love u's toghter...
can play with single one at a time or may be the lip thing too.. but not together...
you should talk yar......at least clear ur mind.. bcz ur feelings are clear..uninvited kisses usually leads to lappadbazi..and if no lappadbazi and a thread too.. that means you have feelings..
As for guy.. I agree with velvet that guys are usually direct about marriage..
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Touch him and see if he flinches :p
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OP, me think the guy has seen too much of “the big bang theory” ![]()
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Where?
Sorry…![]()