There is no crystal ball to predict that a particular friend will turn out to be a reliable, positive relationship in your life or, by contrast, that a negative association will cause you emotional distress, or worse. Since destructive or negative friends are not always that easy to spot, WHEN FRIENDSHIP HURTS may help you to reevaluate your current friends, as well as to reassess past or potential friendships.
The Promise Breaker Constantly disappoints you or breaks promises
The Taker Borrows and fails to return something precious or valuable to you.
The Double-Crosser Betrays you big time
The Risk Taker Puts you in harm’s way because of illegal or dangerous behavior
The Self-Absorbed Never has time to listen to you
The Cheat Lies, or steals your romantic partner
The Discloser Betrays your confidence
The Competitor Excessively combative with you and wants what you have relationships, job, possessions
The One-Upper Always one up on you
The Rival Wants whatever you have and may try to take it from you
The Faultfinder Overly critical
The Downer Always negative, critical, and sad, and makes you feel that way too.
The Rejecter Dislikes you and lets you know it
The Abuser Verbally, physically,
The Loner Would rather be alone than with a friend
The Blood Sucker Overly dependent
The Therapist Needs to analyze everything and give you advice
The Interloper Overly involved in your life
The Copy Cat Imitates you
The Controller Needs to dominate you or the friendship
The Caretaker Needs to be a friend’s keeper, mother or nursemaid, rather than an equal.
So which ones r the ones You currently have???
I have the Controller, therapist , Copy Cat, Caretaker(not too bad), The downer…wow I have a long list…
recently i sort of distanced myself from a few becuz they are so not worth it
but dealin with ppl like that , that u need to ignore 24/7 is soo hard! especially if ur school is messed because their are soo many physical and verbal fights even wen u just glance at each other. they go like ' y u lookin at me for'
ah, so hard. but yes. i have great friends too and im glad to part my ways from the others
if any guppies here are assimilation-friendly (having no prob with going up close and personal with goras, kalas other cultures etc.) they are more likely to get one of amber's list.. cuz most of us know how most pakis are..
i just cut ties with a "convenient user" friend...she would call me when she needed something..other wise..No.
We met when it was to her convenience..like going for a oil change..or when she needed something done..so..one day when stuck inside a car wash .....i called her to help and perhaps give a ride home..she refused..that she was sleepy..
So after that day..we never talked again!
well wen i was extermely young(not that i am that old only 18 lolz) like in secondry school that is wen i encoutred some of the meaniest girls but i didnt back down i give it an all out argument i have had the convient friends but told them were to go lolzzzz alot of my friends come to me for advice or wen tthey want to burn off some steam cos i just sit there and listen i find it intrestin werid i know
