Re: Kids out of wedlock
I don't have a particular answer to this question......it depends on the age, genders and certain situations.
What type of situations?
Say, your 17 year old daughter gets pregnant. She's mature and all that, but it's happened. She is pregnant. What do you do now?
And what will you do with your son, if he makes someone pregnant?
Re: Kids out of wedlock
Yes, I will be upset but I won't throw them out of the home.
Re: Kids out of wedlock
A big freaking NO NO for me.. may Allah protect us from going through this horrible experience.
Re: Kids out of wedlock
What type of situations?
Say, your 17 year old daughter gets pregnant. She's mature and all that, but it's happened. She is pregnant. What do you do now?
And what will you do with your son, if he makes someone pregnant?
I'd marry them off and if they don't agree then I'd say farewell to them.
Re: Kids out of wedlock
I wouldn't want my daughter getting pregnant before shes atleast 21-22. I don't care about marriage as much but it would be nice l if shes in a serious relationship. i would never disown my child or force them to marry someone just because they are pregnant. it would be ideal however to be married or living with the father.
another scenario could be that if my daughter is 27+ and not married, i would WANT her to have a baby by then regardless of being married or not because the biological clock is ticking! i would be there for her to help raise my grandkid.