Kids out of wedlock

[IceSoul]

Re: Kids out of wedlock

@Deeba1234

^To be honest I think what would prob happen is that if it was my daughter’s baby we’d bring it up as a family and she’d stay at home till she’s older/wiser and can stand on her own two feet or she meets someone and I think they’d be able to bring it up together.. If it was my son I’d make sure he was seeing the baby regularly and paying some sort of maintenance, if he was at college/uni and wasn’t working I’d make him get a part-time job to help the mother out..

Not sure what u mean by ‘this society’.. I wouldn’t live in a desi area anyway (in the UK), too much gossiping and backbiting, people focusing disproportionately on what the girls are getting up to, wearing etc. I’d rather stay away from all that craziness.. Obviously desi friends would prob make comments but as long as they’re not rude (eg. call her a sl*t) I wouldn’t be that bothered, u have to shrug it off and get on with life imo, not wallow in self-pity..

I know this is not true with 99.9% of desis but with other groups if a guy/girl falls in love he/she doesn’t usually run a mile if they find their new partner already has a kid.. I don’t really care if my son/daughter brings home someone black, white or anything else, as long as they’re a decent person - and if there’s a kid involved that person must be able to handle the extra pressure and responsibility..

Are you really of Pakistani ancestry? Do more people like you exist? lol