hey kahawat hai.. k if you feel beautiful yourself from inside, then confidence is the key...
aur rahee baat teh very first statement of your post, **NO YOU CANT GENERALIZE EVERYONE UNDER SAME CATEGORY.... you just cant.. there are rotten eggs everywhere....
**and while looking for partners, personality >> looks... the end.. Looks do matter, but how much? in the long run that is?? You should love someone for who they are, not by how good they will look by your side...
No one can ever state as a fact, that they dont want their partner to be atleast on the same scale of looks as they are... But I have seen couples where one partner is beautiful and other one is just normal looking... and they are happy..
It all depends on what your definition of beauty is????