Re: khufia marriage
whoa whoa whoa! wait a second! I read a few comments where girls are said to be dishonest because they are not loyal to their parents. What? how can you even compare the two - parents and the spouse? Parents and spouse hold two different status in one's life. I have heard of stories where a girl eloped with a guy and went on living happily ever after.
As for Ghulail's question, I think for the most part it has to do with family disputes and patience. Couples elope because their families can't accept the truth. Young guys and girls would rather learn from the experience than wait to hear out their parents' lectures and advices.