Khair hy, Jaany do

:salam2:

When someone is hurt, offended or get in trouble due to other person, usually we (accompanying victim/ or passer-by pakis) says ‘Khair hy yaar, koi baat nahi, jaany do’. What I wanna say here that the offended person is actually felt hurted and no one else can imagin through what he/she is suffering from. Like someone slapped me and a friend of mine or any other passer-by will try to separate both of us by saying the same. But if he slapped then maybe he won’t listen to us and get in argu/fight with the attacker and if he do the same then definately he felt hurted where i’m unaware of his feelings.

Sometime such behave caused fights between us (with neighbour, friends etc.,). How shall we come-up in this situation to solve it in better way?