Reading a novel, where a Pakistani guy is married to a German lady. That lady gives too much attention to put things on their places. Writer says that its in German culture that they can’t see things scattered over there.
In one instance, when Pakistani guy was drinking water while reading a newspaper. He got a sip of water from glass and put on the table. When after a while, he moved his hand towards glass, it was not there. The German lady got it from the table, washed it and placed it at its place
So what do you think is ita cultural thing that some nations like Germans like to see everything at its place and in some cultures like (India/Pakistan) scattering things, collecting unnecessary items around you is an acceptable norm? OR its not cultural thing, its a personal trait.
How does culture affect? If I look at Indo-Pak culture, girls are more responsible in arrangement of things at house. Normally, their games like (gudde guRiya) have something to do with the responsibilities of household stuff.. On other hand, boys are given free hand to scatter things. Its probably considered manly.
i think it's more to do with the individual family...meaning...how parents enforce the disciplined life style...there are rebel kids in each family who do NOT subscribe to any domestic rules.
vaise, jagah par cheezeN rakhne men faaida yeh hai k kabhii accidents nahiiN hotaa yaa us cheez ko DhoonDhnaanahiiNpaRtaa hai...
ek qissa sunaataa huN:
jab maiN India gayaa to apne bhaanje ke liye umda jean and T-shirt le gayaa...subHo 5 baje ham logoN kotrain se Banda shahr jaanaa thaa [5 hour journet]. sab 4 baje uThe, sab ne taiyaariyaan shuru kar diiN...mere bhateeje ne apne istri kiye huye kapRoN ko chauki par rakh diyaa aur kahaa k bas chai pee kar vo kapRe badlegaa...sister ne mujhe chai di to maiN ne sochaa k bhateeje ko chai de duuN taa k vo jaldii se pee kar kapRe badal le aur hamaarii train miss na ho...
...maiN jab chai dene lagaa to vo chai uske naye istri shudah kapRoN par gir gaii...uskaa muNh dekhne ke qaabil thaa bas...mujh se kuchh kah bhii nahiiN saktaa thaa...andar hii andar kasmasa kar hii rah gayaa...
...maiN ne sorry jab kaii baar kahaa to vo bechaaraa bolaa k, "maamuuN, mujhe hii apne kapRe yahaN nahiiN rakhne the...merii hii Ghalatii hai!"
baat to us ne saHeeH hii kahii thii k use kapRoN ko hang kar ke rakhnaa thaa! i still feel sorry for him...
How does culture affect? If I look at Indo-Pak culture, girls are more responsible in arrangement of things at house. Normally, their games like (gudde guRiya) have something to do with the responsibilities of household stuff.. On other hand, boys are given free hand to scatter things. Its probably considered manly.
hello hello yahan ghalti uski kum apki zyadah thee
Aisa tou nai k wo humesha chauki(donnp wht tht is) pe rakhta tha…he wanted to change…few minutes k baat thee…ab koe cupboard mai ghus k tou nahi change krta
u dunno what a chowki is? Allahabad meN to har ghar meN hotii hai…ghar ke main Hall meN jo taKht lagaa hotaa hai jis par gadde ke oopar embroidered bed-spread lagaaa hotaa hai.
merii Ghalati thii magar usko vo kapRe hangar meN lagaa kar closet emN rakhnaa thaa yaa khooNTii [hook] par Taangnaa thaa…hai na? i am maamuuN so i am always right! lol
Organized and disorganized men/women exist in all societies.
But some communities living in same societies are more particular about cleanliness and order. My boss was referring to a community (I won't name that) that they got worst bath-rooms at their homes, how much they are wealthy. Probably, he was generalizing to an extent, but definitely things (extent of order / cleanliness) are different in different communities.
But some communities living in same societies are more particular about cleanliness and order. My boss was referring to a community (I won't name that) that they got worst bath-rooms at their homes, how much they are wealthy. Probably, he was generalizing to an extent, but definitely things (extent of order / cleanliness) are different in different communities.
As I said, culture might have an effect, but its more of a personal trait.
I 've this habit of pulling dhaga out of pillows cover, bed sheet… My sister gets angry on this and I just have pulled a lot of dhaga from bed sheet just now
i am maamuuN so i am always right! lol
I 've this habit of pulling dhaga out of pillows cover, bed sheet… My sister gets angry on this and I just have pulled a lot of dhaga from bed sheet just now