Would you be able to tolerate being with someone who constantly wants you to update them with your activities throughout the day? They just always want to know what you’re doing, and if you forget to let them know, or you get busy and don’t inform them, they get upset about it.
For instance, when you wake up you have to let them know
“Hey, I just woke up”. And if you’re going out for lunch, you need to inform them, “I’m going out with X, Y, and Z for lunch. We’re going to XYZ. I’ll be home in an hour and a half” etc etc.
Why do you think some people are like this? What do they think they’re accomplishing by keeping tabs on what you’re doing?
well if u hve nuffin to hide den dere is no harm in lettin ur hubby or bf knw dey r prolly js askin out of care nt bt if it is out of posessiveness den dt is annoying
I would go nuts living w/ a person like that :) I just like to get up and go wherever I want to. You can call me on my cell once or twice during the day but more than that and I won't pick up.
keeping tabs I would never be with a person who keep s tabs on your where abouts and is going insane over it..some people even keep tabs on who the other person is talking to.
I have a friend whose girl friend keeps tabs on what he is saying on forums and online communities..so the poor guy has stopped everything..so i feel people like that are insane.They ruin every relationship..!
if a certain person is constantly keeping tabs on maybe they have issues with regards to trusting you, if they have no reason to not trust you mayb u shud have a few stern words with them !!!
I think its insecurity that makes sum1 want to know ur every move and behave like that. Thank god my husband isnt like that with me. I would find it very suffocating and unhealthy indeed.
just insecurity and jealousy and a man has no life or friends of his own if he is doing this. to me its frustrating. my husband doesnt do this but if he did i would just not answer his calls and tlel him to find a new hobby.
it dependss... if my husband were to ask me questions like that... i would only mind if he didnt tell me those same details.... if i'm telling him where im going for how long and with who... he sure as heck should tell me also... : )
