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ok so… how are you at keeping a promise ??
i mean i dont care how little the promise is or how big. for the past two weeks i’ve came across some people who had made a promise to me.. but never kept it.. i mean is this like the new trend here?? what the heck.. if you say you’re gonna do it.. just do it.. if not why lie??
I never promise to do anything lightly, so when I do usually keep them. But, then again for the same reason i rarely ever promise i will do something...never have time!
Oh Roshi, i can name a few ppl here who have said they will do that in exchange and once me the naive one did my part the other person never kept their promise. So, trust me you are not the only one who have come across ppl like that. I just suggest never to trust anyone here or anywhere.
If i say I’ll do something, I may or may not do it
But if I promise to do it, then I will. I don’t believe in breaking promises, unless you get permission from the person that you made the promise to first.
mado i will beat the hell out of you- you know why
I sometimes share someone i know their life stories but NEVER reveal the name or how i know them :D and NO one will ever figure out whats going on. This is in situation for example - something bad happend to someone and i have to prevent another person not to do similar thing. - i would even change their gender - to make it so complicated that no one can figure it out.
But to go to another person and discuss whats going in someone else's life is wrong - especially when someone has said DONOT let this out.
I would not want that to be done to me.
my self!
I have a very very very hard time trusting people because people in the past back stabbed me so bad. NEVER trust anyone at work place *grin.
Out of all the people i know there is ONLY one best friend of mine that knows anything and everything about me. I think she is the only person where i am just simply me :) - ofcourse trust my parents and siblings etc ---with everyone else i watch what i am saying.
Someone very close revealed something and it meant not to be out in open. Since then i have never been able to speak with that person the way i use to. Sort of ended that friendship.
So now i dont tell anyone my weakness because i see everyone tries to come back and bite you really bad.
*sigh
in this age and time, i think promises shudnt be taken seriously. i mean its not like they take an oath or something. if someone promises u anything DO NOT expect them to fulfil it. :D tat way u wont be disappointed rite? as we all know, no one do anything for anyone else. lets help ourselves :)
I think it is very important to keep promises and that's why if I don't think I will be able to do something, I let the other person know straight up. It's all about giving your word and for me it applies to all aspects of life be it being punctual when you tell someone you will meet them at a certain time to even engagements and marriages.
i always try to keep my promise whatever it takes...but i dont trust people in doing the same way..and if i cant do something i just dont give my word..p.s. its hard to trust someone again if that person didnt keep the promise last last times lool