........ Till 1990 kasmir was a peaceful place ....
Sudha sahib. Your peaceful ideals are greatly appreciated. However please correct and update your historical views. Indian text books and media are really biased (just like their Pakistani counterparts) so you must do your own research before coming up with any plan.
FYI. Kashmir had uprisings since 1946 starting with Punch issue and then on and off all the way until few months ago. Some of the uprising were peaceful (like the most recent one), and others were not.
In some of the uprisings Pakistan remained "good neighbor" and in others she did "help". In cases when Pakistan did help, it wasn't any different from the Indian role in Hyderabad and Junagadh revolts against their state governments.
I hope you will do justice to yourself and your religion and not spread fallacies like so many Jihadis do.
Thank you.