Karma...

[Safoora]

@redvelvet

There’s the saying that the best revenge is to lead a happy life. Sure, it’s easier said than done. But spending every waking minute of your life in the hope that the offender is being punished…not only does the negativity consume you…it’s unhealthy (stress related illnessess)…and in such waiting…you can end up not living your own life to the fullest. Those moments that you wasted wishshing that XYZ is leading a miserable life…could have been spend doing something positive for yourself. So, in a way, you’re making your own life shorter. You can wait and there’s a chance that you may not see the just desserts…or you can try to learn from a negative situation and try to move forward with your life.

Your “gain” may not necessarily be that person’s misery. Your “gain” could be strength, development of character, some lesson you learned. What you might have perceived as a “loss” could actually open the door or pave the way toward a more positive opportunity in the future. Maybe your “gain” could be better than another person’s suffering.

That’s exactly what I have been trying to tell some people in my life. They will just linger on to that one event in their life and spend such a major part of life reminiscing about it, and end up accusing the other person for everything that went wrong in their life. I have tried talking, not once or twice but many many times- but its like this glass shell that they cannot come out of, and I love them too much to leave them the way they’re. Any suggestion?